My (older) brother-in-law is a drug-addicted narcissist, my (older) half-sister is a hopeless stoner, my (older, adopted) half-brother gets out of prison in two? years for shooting his wife in the head (she survived), my (older, unrelated to the others) half-brother is following in the footsteps of our mother and becoming a horrible alcoholic.
I can't be their savior. I've done my best.